Don't worry, everyone gets homesick at some stage in their lives. It is not easy moving away from everything that is so familiar to you. You are starting out on a brand new life here. YOUR brand new life!

First of all, don't give up on college. The first few months are always the toughest for everyone, but if you stick them out, you will realise what a wonderful place college is to be. When I began college, I seriously considered dropping out too. I remember talking to a friend of mine about it and she said something that will stick with me for the rest of my life;

"THERE IS PROBABLY NOTHING YOU WILL REGRET IF YOU STAY IN COLLEGE, BUT YOU WILL REGRET IT IF YOU DON'T STAY!"

So I guess what I am trying to say is, keep your chin up! The best way to over come home sickness is to keep yourself busy! Get involved in a sport or society. Organise a night out with your classmates. You may realise that they are in the same position as you!

The good news is that homesickness goes away eventually. As you gradually get used to your new surroundings, you’ll grow more comfortable. You’ll also gain a sense of confidence and independence by knowing that you can learn to adjust. Here are some tips to help you on your way;

Accept that things will be different, but different isn’t bad or wrong. Part of maturing is learning to be flexible in different situations, so this is all part of the process of preparing you for a fantastic future.

Bring a piece of home. Pack special items that remind you of home and give you comfort like your pillow, stuffed animals, pictures, posters, music, and specialty food items.

Focus on what you’re gaining. Instead of thinking about everything you’re missing, focus on what you’re gaining by being away. Think about all the new experiences you can share with friends and family when you return.

Know that you’re not alone. Everyone who is new is in the same boat so find a buddy to go exploring. Walk around and learn the campus and city. The more familiar you become with your new surroundings, the more your feelings of homesickness will fade.

Keep in touch. You’re never more than a call or click away from friends and family. Make an effort to explore and learn new things about your environment so you can share your experiences with them.

Get involved. Join a club, study group, or find a part-time job that will get you involved with other people. Knowing that you will see the same faces and interact on a regular schedule helps a lot.

Plan a visit. Invite friends and family to visit you and act as their tour guide. It also helps to schedule a trip back home, but avoid going home every weekend. You’ll gain more confidence by sticking it out and finding new things to do.

Soon, you may find yourself missing your college accommodations when you are home!!!